In 2015, after 8 years of marriage, I discovered my then husband had been hiding a pornography and sex addiction from me our entire relationship. He had no desire to give it up. I fought with everything I had to save my marriage but in the end I could not make him choose recovery or me. I filed for divorce in 2016 and am still in the trenches of making this divorce final. Though this discovery completely devastated my life and at many times I didn’t know how I could possibly be happy again, I can now say, with perspective and all the hard work I have put into healing, that my life is on the right path. I have no doubt that God is guiding me and that fills my life with peace and joy like I have never experienced. This is my story, the ups and down, the victories and challenges.  I am building the joyful life.